blame game

there's no way out for her to prove that there's anything redeemable in her.

her choices are: first, she proves that her dire financial need to provide for her family were the reasons why she whored her self out to a sugar daddy. that may sound that it absolves her of the culpability, but then again, she fraternized with a married man - where's the honor in that?

second, she may claim that she is simply found the attention that she desperately needed so she gave in to the advances of her boss and became a sugar baby. that indeed paints me in a bad light for not being enough for her, but then again, it's still with a married man, and now she's the cheater - how low can you go?

third, she desperately needs the money for the baby. but then again, which came first? her baby or her becoming a sugar baby? either way, she continued whoring her self out while having the baby, perhaps she's even more so compelled to sell herself because she didn't believe in the relationship that we had, so she better believe she can handle parenting on her own.

but the child is innocent, it had nothing to do with her mistake... right?

the child had nothing to do with it if she can admit to willfully cheating on me with a married man. and if you can stomach having someone like that as a mother of your kid, then try teaching me how to see things your way

because i don't see an alternate universe where any rationale to what she did is remotely acceptable.

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