with the utmost sincerity

for the longest time i've gravitated towards postmodern sensibilities.

it resonated with me, perhaps for my lack of discernible humanity. it was easy to be self-aware, to laugh at yourself before anyone else does - to think that you're pointing out the bullshit of modern life and adulthood puts you above everyone else who are merely trying to get by and maintain their respective egos.

i guess even in my late 20s i'm just as fallibly idealistic.

one way or another, people will always be set in their ways. everyone will have their motivation for doing things that we may disagree with. it redounds to respect. of which i honestly have very little to give, i can maybe count in a single hand the people i've truly respected. i've been merely substituting apathetic tolerance because i find it's easier to not care than to respect a difference. trust me, i've been there, and i can't. maybe not as of the moment.

i don't know what will trigger me to learn that lesson. as long as it's easy to let go of people, i don't think i'll truly ever learn how to respect other people's difference while concurrently caring for them. cause eventually we find that most people have a degree of disposability.

and i guess that's how postmodern i am.

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