eyeing the tiger

the moment i found out that i was allegedly going to be a dad, the part of my brain that found other women attractive suddenly turned off. for a couple of months or so no beautiful face nor soul registered to me as likable - until over the weekend.

the lady was tall, and tall is always good. the lady carried herself with an unassuming beauty, until you actually find out her stature that supremely surpasses mine, or most guys for that matter. the lady was broadly opinionated and situationally sharp, a respectable yang to my yin.

for all intents and purposes, this tom has met his autumn.

however, i'm not about to rush into a relationship, nor even strut into a steady pace to seek out this lady. you see, we're both on the same boat of being just recently detached from a deceitful denouement. fun fact: we were both cheated on by our respective exes while they were germanic-speaking countries. we both understand how hard it is to try to move on and deal with the crippling isolation. while yeah, this spells the perfect scenario for us to catch each other on the rebound, we're not cheap like that. i personally need to get over the post-relationship self-proselytizing before i pursue another partner. the last thing we want is to shortchange anyone out of quality human connections.

and the first thing we want right now is a montage of me getting up from rock bottom to see how much of a survivor i am.

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