Spoiler alert

I can see this blog as a chronicle of how i fell out of the relationship I'm in right now.

Unlike the previous relationship where i was just full of it and i suddenly called it quits. This time around i feel it's a slow and agonizing burn. I will admit, a part of me wants out because some of my important needs aren't being met. And perhaps someone else could be providing it if i had not decided to cut off certain people from my life as a matter of compromise in the relationship.

But we never truly are the perfect partners for our significant others. We just somehow try to make it work.

At this point, I'm sincerely questioning what's the value we both bring to our lives. It's not like we have a lot of things in common. Neither are we complementary in our capabilities. What i can tell for certain is that she gravitates to me and that i am perhaps too accommodating. We probably couldn't help ourselves to pull away from what i find to be a seemingly subpar relationship. I guess we both find an enormous amount of comfort from being together that we just forgo the possibility of pursuing a partner better suited for each of us.

If i were a betting man, there's perhaps very little odds against a break up. I guess it's just a matter of when.

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